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Official SERVD Couples Rules

SERVD Couples is a card game designed to bring fun, spontaneity, and playful challenges into your relationship. It's a game that turns everyday situations into opportunities for humor, bonding, and sometimes mischief. Here’s how to play:


The objective is to play all of your cards by completing the actions or challenges on them, enhancing your relationship through shared experiences and fun activities.


1. Players: The game is designed for two players (a couple).

2. Divide the Deck: Each player receives half of the deck, ensuring they each have an equal number of cards.


  1. Starting the Game:

    • Decide mutually on a start date for the game.

    • Set a game period (e.g., one month, six months, etc.), or agree to play until all cards are used.

  2. Playing a Card:

    • At any point during the game period, you can play a card by presenting it to your partner.

    • Your partner must complete the action or challenge on the card as per the instructions.

  3. Rules for Playing Cards:

    • Timing: Cards can be played at any time unless the card specifies a particular time or condition.

    • Completion: Your partner must complete the action or challenge within a reasonable time frame, as indicated on the card or mutually agreed upon.

    • Validity: Make sure the card is played in a context where the action or challenge is reasonable and safe.

  4. Refusing a Card:

    • Refusal Limit: Players can set a limit on the number of refusals allowed during the game (e.g., each player can refuse up to two cards).

    • Replaying a Card: If a card is refused, it can either be discarded or saved to play again later, based on your agreed rules.

Winning the Game

  • The game continues until the set period ends or all cards are played.

  • There is no traditional winner; the aim is to enjoy the playful challenges and interactions.

  • Optionally, you can declare a winner based on who played the most cards or completed the most challenges.


Tips for Playing:

  • Communication: Ensure clear communication about the rules and objectives before starting the game.

  • Flexibility: Be adaptable and considerate of each other's schedules and comfort levels.

  • Fun and Respect: The primary goal is to have fun and strengthen your relationship. Respect each other’s boundaries and enjoy the shared experiences.

Examples of Card Actions:

  • “Breakfast in Bed: Your partner must make you breakfast in bed within the next week.”

  • “Massage Time: Your partner owes you a 10-minute massage.”

  • “Date Night: Plan a surprise date night for your partner.”

  • “Chore Swap: Your partner has to do one of your chores for a day.”

  • “Sweet Treat: Bring your partner their favorite dessert.”

SERVD Couples is a delightful and engaging game that adds a spark of fun and creativity to any relationship. It’s perfect for couples looking to spice up their daily routine and create memorable moments together.

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